Bomb-bom = i am useing cubesoft phinx...so i just type in my info in there and it auto sends the cmd....

PSO is connecting to your PC, and using DNS to work out the IP address of the PSO server. PSOLoad is supposed to point it at your NIC, but you've got the IP address info wrong in Phoenix, so it doesn't. As a result, PSO tries to go to some IP address which probably doesn't exist on your network (IIRC Phoenix defaults to 192.168.1.100). Hence error 101 on the GC ("can't find server"). So, load up Phoenix, and goto the Options tab. Put your PC + GC IP addresses in the correct fields and you're all set. PSO will need to be setup to use your 192.168.1.1 address for DNS, by the way.